This Icon Embraced Aging Naturally & Broke the Record as the Oldest Tony Winner at 90 – See Her Now

The actress posing for a photo at the Tony Award Nominations, 1996 | Source: Getty Images

The actress posing for a photo at the Tony Award Nominations, 1996 | Source: Getty Images

This Icon Embraced Aging Naturally & Broke the Record as the Oldest Tony Winner at 90 – See Her Now


Junie Sihlangu


Apr 16, 2025


12:24 P.M.

While trying to break into Hollywood, this star took on everyday jobs, such as working in a deli. She had no idea that her perseverance and love for acting would eventually earn her a highly coveted accolade.

This actress, recognized for her role in 1996’s “Twister,” has spent most of her life on stage. Now an icon in the industry, she made history by winning a Tony Award at age 90. Embracing aging naturally, she has evolved beautifully through the years. Here’s what we know about her.

The actress filming on location for "The Unforgivable Secret" on October 31, 1981, in East Hampton, New York | Source: Getty Images

The actress filming on location for “The Unforgivable Secret” on October 31, 1981, in East Hampton, New York | Source: Getty Images


The Celebrity’s Road to Stardom

This legendary star was

born on November 3, 1930

, in Topeka, Kansas. Her father worked for the telephone company during the day but directed biblical plays at a Protestant church in the evenings. For her, acting seemed like a true calling.

She

clarified

, “They weren’t for entertainment,” but explained that she found the plays entertaining. The star remembered enjoying rehearsals, and when her father needed someone to fill in, she already knew all the lines.

The star preparing for her English stage debut as Josephine Perry in "The Young and Beautiful" in London, August 14, 1956 | Source: Getty Images

The star preparing for her English stage debut as Josephine Perry in “The Young and Beautiful” in London, August 14, 1956 | Source: Getty Images

Eventually, her father gave his youngest daughter an Old Testament costume and her own starring roles. She fondly recalled the joy of performing,

stating

, “That was the beginning.” By the age of 18, she was married.

She tied the knot with Wesley Smith, a teacher, and not long after, they moved to New York. While auditioning, the actress worked at a deli slicing salami and also checked hats at the Russian Tea Room.

When she landed her first acting job, she briefly considered changing her name to something more glamorous, however, she decided it wasn’t worth the trouble.

Ultimately, she kept her married name, which suited her perfectly—straightforward, simple, and honest. Her focus remained on acting rather than the fame that came with it.

The star seen on location filming "Three Days of the Condor" on February 21, 1975, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

The star seen on location filming “Three Days of the Condor” on February 21, 1975, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

In 1955, she reached a major milestone by appearing in LIFE Magazine alongside three young Broadway actresses including Jayne Mansfield. Reflecting on the opportunity, she shrugged and

said

, “Somebody must have gotten the idea to put us all on the cover.”

For the shoot, she wore her stage costume—an off-the-shoulder red dress—and looked straight into the camera. The magazine

praised

her “pale-faced intensity,” while Mansfield stood behind her in a strapless sequin dress.

The actress and her daughter at the premiere of "A Century of Women" on May 23, 1994, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

The actress and her daughter at the premiere of “A Century of Women” on May 23, 1994, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

At the time, the actress was 25 and the oldest among the photographed starlets, many of whom were still teenagers. By 2017, the star had acted so long that when she

spoke of developing

a new line-learning method in “recent years,” she meant “the last 25 or so.”

She is the only surviving star from that shoot. Her longevity in the industry seems less like a calculated career path and more like the instinct of an actor drawn to new roles. The celebrity

admitted

, “I don’t think I was ever particularly a planner.”

The actress posing at the Tony Award Nominations in 1996 in New York City | Source: Getty Images

The actress posing at the Tony Award Nominations in 1996 in New York City | Source: Getty Images

Around the time of the magazine cover, she

told

a journalist she hadn’t “realized all my stage ambitions.” She wasn’t referring to fame or awards—she simply wished to play Nina in “The Seagull.”

On Broadway, the star eventually performed in works by Harold Pinter, Bertolt Brecht, Tennessee Williams, Eugene O’Neill, John Steinbeck, Sam Shepard, and Tony Kushner—not to mention three Chekhov plays. However, by the time she took on “The Seagull,” she had aged out of Nina and portrayed the fierce Madame Arkadina instead.

The celebrity during the 51st Annual Village Voice Obie Awards in New York, on May 15, 2006 | Source: Getty Images

The celebrity during the 51st Annual Village Voice Obie Awards in New York, on May 15, 2006 | Source: Getty Images

She’s also known for her performances in 2002’s “Minority Report” and 2017’s “Lady Bird.” Despite beginning her career when appearance standards for women were rigid and cosmetic procedures were rising, she chose to

age naturally

.

The star at the Film Independent Spirit Awards on March 3, 2018, in Santa Monica, California | Source: Getty Images

The star at the Film Independent Spirit Awards on March 3, 2018, in Santa Monica, California | Source: Getty Images


Sticking to Natural Beauty & Working with Other Greats

At one point, she worried about her age—but not out of vanity. As she aged and her dark hair turned white on top, she left it that way. She

explained

, “Nature just decided to gray me that way,” adding, “I really liked the way it happened.”

Until then, her challenge was appearing younger than she looked on her driver’s license. At 22, she played a 16-year-old drama queen in her Broadway debut in “Time Out for Ginger.”

The actress at the 72nd Annual Drama League Awards Ceremony and Luncheon on May 5, 2006, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

The actress at the 72nd Annual Drama League Awards Ceremony and Luncheon on May 5, 2006, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

A few years later, while preparing a skit for “The Loretta Young Show,” a director remarked she didn’t look old enough for one of her character’s lines. She

replied

, “Why don’t we say I’m between 15 and 100?”

The actress enjoyed the ad-lib so much that she used it on-air in the skit and in interviews. Her career has continued steadily across stage and screen since her 1952 Broadway debut in “Time Out for Ginger,” which was soon followed by her film debut in “East of Eden.”

The celebrity at the "The Assembled Parties" opening night on April 17, 2013, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

The celebrity at the “The Assembled Parties” opening night on April 17, 2013, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

Over the years, she collaborated with

iconic theater figures

and shared insights gleaned from those experiences during a 2020 episode of “Stagecraft,” Variety’s theater podcast. One such figure was Lee Strasberg, a legendary acting teacher.

Speaking during her Broadway appearance in “The Inheritance” and ahead of starring in Wes Anderson’s “The French Dispatch,” she said she learned as much from watching other actors as from performing. That same year, she made history with a prestigious award.

The star at the opening night party for "John" on August 11, 2015, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

The star at the opening night party for “John” on August 11, 2015, in New York City | Source: Getty Images


Making History

Lois Smith was first nominated for a Tony Award in 1990 for “The Grapes of Wrath,” and again in 1996 for “Buried Child.” Both were for Best Featured Actress in a Play.

At 90, she became the oldest performer to win a Tony Award for acting, marking her first win. Lois received the accolade for playing Margaret, a caretaker at a sanctuary for men dying from AIDS-related illnesses, in Part 2 of Matthew López’s six-hour-plus epic, “The Inheritance.”

Lois Smith visits Build Series to discuss "Marjorie Prime" on August 15, 2017, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

Lois Smith visits Build Series to discuss “Marjorie Prime” on August 15, 2017, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

Reflecting on the work, she

said

, “I love the processes of the live theater.” She joined the production during its workshop phase while López was still finalizing the script, inspired by E. M. Forster’s novel “Howards End.”

“E. M. Forster gave us—there’s a famous two-word message from Howards End, which is so apt, I think, tonight for all of us who are here celebrating the importance, the functions, of live theater: ‘Only connect,'” she

said

.

Lois Smith at the IFP Gotham Awards on November 27, 2017, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

Lois Smith at the IFP Gotham Awards on November 27, 2017, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

Ben Brantley of The New York Times

called

her performance—the play’s sole female role—”quietly brilliant.” She triumphed over impressive nominees, including Jane Alexander for “Grand Horizons;” Cora Vander Broek for “Linda Vista;” and Annie McNamara and Chalia La Tour, both for “Slave Play.”

Cicely Tyson, the previous record-holder, had won a Tony at age 88 in 2013 for Horton Foote’s “The Trip to Bountiful.” In a March 2020 interview with Variety, Lois noted that her schedule for “The Inheritance” was fairly light.

Lois Smith at the opening night of "Happy Talk" on May 16, 2019, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

Lois Smith at the opening night of “Happy Talk” on May 16, 2019, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

She explained that she didn’t appear onstage until late in the play’s two-part run and performed only three times a week. The actress

said

, “I think to myself, ‘Now what’s going to happen to me?'”

She

added

, “This may be the end of me. Suppose somebody asks me to do eight shows a week, what am I going to say? It’s hard to imagine at this point!” Yet, years later, she continued acting and attending red carpet events. Fans who saw her in her 90s had only kind words to share.

Lois Smith poses at the opening night for "Dana H" on Broadway on October 17, 2021, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

Lois Smith poses at the opening night for “Dana H” on Broadway on October 17, 2021, in New York City | Source: Getty Images


Still Acting and Gracing Red Carpets

In 2024, Lois appeared at the South by Southwest (SXSW) film festival for her movie, “The Uninvited.” She played Helen, a mysterious intruder at a Hollywood party. Asked about the role’s appeal, she

revealed

that “A part of complexity and mystery” drew her in.

Lois Smith at the "The Uninvited" premiere as part of the SXSW Conference and Festivals on March 11, 2024, in Austin, Texas | Source: Getty Images

Lois Smith at the “The Uninvited” premiere as part of the SXSW Conference and Festivals on March 11, 2024, in Austin, Texas | Source: Getty Images

She was intrigued by the ambiguity of whether her character was ill or something else was at play. Lois was also asked to give advice to aspiring actors. She recalled being asked this in another interview years earlier.

Her

advice

was simple: “Be on time and enjoy yourself.” In 2023, an X account celebrated her 93rd birthday with photos from her youth and a recent shot. The caption

read

, “Happy 93rd Birthday Lois Smith! Born Today, Nov 3, in 1930… over 140 roles, her film debut was in East of Eden…”

Netizens were quick to shower her with praise. Now 94 and turning 95 in 2025, Lois remains beloved. One fan

wrote

,

“She remains very lovely, indeed!”

Another

said

,

“I recognize her from the way she looks now,”

and a third

added

,

“Oh, she is so wonderful.You can see that elderly, beautiful face, everywhere.”

Lois Smith at the "Grangeville" opening night on February 24, 2025, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

Lois Smith at the “Grangeville” opening night on February 24, 2025, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

Lois Smith’s extraordinary career stands as a tribute to perseverance, passion, and authenticity. Her journey continues to inspire generations of artists and admirers around the world.